Christmas Eve Sunset on The Smiling Coast |
Till we connect again in 2011...This is Matty In The Gambia reminding you...Don't Stop Believin!!
...working in partnership with West Africans to empower youth and build healthy communities.
Christmas Eve Sunset on The Smiling Coast |
Sh*thea...I mean Oliver - Homeliness Personified (you can scarcely make out the pee stain and pellets in the background |
Hello all!
Since last checking in I’ve had the opportunity to part take in a few trips up country with the most recent one being to CRR (Central River Region). It was a full week in the field and took in two different 3 day workshops on HIV/AIDS and life skills for out of school youth. I travelled and facilitated the workshop with a co-worker and trainer from NSGA Abdou Kanteh. The week was full of learning and new experiences for me both in and out of the classroom.
First up-in the classroom. Abdou having come from the region was able to relate so well to both groups that we taught. There was a wide age range within the group from about 16-mid 30’s along with various different life experiences but the main thing connecting each participant was that no one was pursuing further schooling at this point. Some would have finished grade 12, some may not have, but all stood to benefit from information about HIV and AIDS and perhaps more importantly life skills such as critical thinking, decision making, emotion management, relationship and communication skills. The approach being that over the years there has been a lot of different initiatives around HIV/AIDS teaching and the general thought is that youth are aware of the risk and yet are still falling victim to HIV. Behaviour change is what is needed to combat this powerful virus and hopefully with teaching these life skills and empowering youth progress will be made in the fight against HIV and AIDS.
I did my best to contribute in the teaching of puberty, reproductive health and STI’s but there were a few obstacles. One-Mandinka (the local language). Although most participants could speak some English Abdou had to step in more than once to explain what I was trying to teach in Mandinka. I know it’s hard to believe but my own Mandinka is not quite up to par. Second-cultural and religious practices. This is a constant learning process. For instance- with regards to sexual health I had to avoid talking about condoms or birth control as they were not accepted within the communities we were working with. I also had some very interesting conversations surrounding female circumcision and early marriage. It is by times difficult to balance your own values and beliefs while attempting to understand another’s point of view.
Second up- Out of the classroom. As I mentioned Abdou was from the region (Pakalinding) and therefore I got to meet and spend lots of quality time with his immediate and extended family at their local compound. I can’t say enough about how welcoming and giving Gambians are. This was constantly displayed by his family and friends. They embraced me the moment I entered. Kids wanted to just be close to me, hold my hand or play with my hair. It is a strange feeling to have your every move watched with so much amazement. I should say most of the kids wanted to be close to me. There was one little girl (Abdou’s niece) who was absolutely terrified of me. She had never seen a white person before and would scream in terror when I entered the room. This went on for about 5 days but then on the 6th day I made a breakthrough. Over dinner I caught her glancing at me from across the bowl (communal eating) and she actually smiled. I of course smiled back with much excitement.
One of my favourite moments included the dance circles that we would have mid afternoon. One of the younger girls would grab a water bucket and a few sticks start the drumming, the clapping and signing would follow. Eventually the elders would drag me up into the center of the circle and songs about me would start. There were a lot of chants like “Dance Toubab Dance” (dance white girl dance) I was initially rather shy and red as a beat but eventually broke out some classic Connolly moves handed down to me from generations of phenomenal dancers.
All in all it was a week I will never forget! I was however pleased to get back to our apartment that has quickly become home and hop on the new bike and head for the beach. A tough life I know...
Until next time, stay fit and have fun!
Mary Catherine
Sunrise at Georgetown Ferry on the River Gambia |
Basse Red Devils...and white guy |
Nuru (in yellow) with brothers and niece skinning sacrificed ram |
Sergio |Ramos digs in... |
Nuru's two nephews and niece |
Hello all!
It is with great excitement that I say hi for the first time from...The Gambia! I’m the lucky (or crazy) girl that is traveling, working and living with Matt in The Gambia (MattyInTheGambia). I am happy to note that we are 2 weeks in and no fights! More specifically I’m the grateful Health Education Intern with ACIC and the NSGA.
Things have changed dramatically in my life over the past month. I went from nursing in PEI (the beautiful Island I call home) to a short chaotic month in Halifax, NS and now waking up to the African sun and heat. I’m am so proud to be working with The NSGA as in the little time I have been around this organization their work and impact on Gambian youth is remarkable. I have lots to learn about just what it is they do and how they go about it but each day I learn more. Hopefully with time I’ll be able to use some of nursing background and help along the way. The staff here have already proved to be amazing hosts and so very welcoming! They are also ever so patient as they try to teach me Wolof (one of The Gambia’s spoken dialects) and I struggle to even catch on to “hello” or “my name is”...I’ll keep you updated on my progress.
An important lesson I’ve learned in my short time in this country is to trust the cute little girls in the market when they sell you peppers and giggle while saying “they are very hot”. This is not to be underestimated. For instance using all of them in the spaghetti sauce or touching your eyes after cutting them leads to a bad scene. Your eyes feel like they have been pepper sprayed (or what I assume this would be like) and Matt is forced to flush your eyes out under the shower. Eiik. That was the start to my first attempt at a meal in our new place. Things can only get better?
I will be in touch from time to time. This will vary depending on the access to the internet. As you’ve heard from Matt it is a big challenge here! But we are currently in a air conditioned cafe with the best connection we’ve had so far! Life is good.
Take care,
M.C
Jerreh explaining a "trust" activity to workshop youth |
Eating with Uncle Sanna and our two Teacher Coordinators |